Bookings

BOOKINGS: LONG, SHORT, OVERNIGHTS!

I've been asked recently what I prefer as an Escort in relation to length of booking, and found there was no straight forward answer. Do I prefer short 1hr bookings, dinner dates or overnights? It all really depends on the mood of the individual. Sometimes the thought of a dinner date after a hectic day can be fantastic, other times I'm too tired and not in the mood for the social but intimate liaison. I receive requests for appointments and answer promptly and honestly. I always aim for my clients to receive a good service..to coin a phrase! The client may be a busy man and 1hr bookings are favourable to his lifestyle. I quite like an hour quickie, can be really fun and sexy. So can other lengths of bookings.

I received an e-mail from a potential client who was considering booking an overnight. We had never met, so I suggested we met initially for a hour booking. He didn't understand my rational and queried why meet first for 1hr? In my opinion, and its just how I feel, I would rather my client who had never booked an escort before got a sense of me in the hour. We would see if we clicked and was compatible to then spend 12hrs roughly together. He did value my response as he was about to part with a lot of money for an overnight. He also had concerns we would be "at it" all night!! I did have to correct him by saying it isn't called all night its overnight. I think I would be anxious too about having to perform...which I couldn't, the whole night, through the early hours until it was time to leave! I'm exhausted just picturing the scene. I just wonder if the stamina of the athletes at the Olympics could manage that!

Think you've been watching far too much of the Olympics its gone to your head!

Its really healthy to discuss bookings and perceptions especially when new to this. I'm not suggesting their is a list or an agenda of minute by minute how a client uses their time. For me that can take a bit excitement out of the process. Their such an excitement around the unknown and how the time will be spent. I guess their needs to be a natural aspect about the process. What will be will be within the boundaries of the appointment.

I know one lady recently had a dinner date then back to her clients hotel. Their hadn't been a discussion around what they will eat. So when they met up she was whisked away to a sushi bar. Food she does not like. I'm not too keen on it and have to really be in the mood. So she picked her way through the date awkwardly. Although I found this story amusing it highlights why communication is important.

Now this kind of sushi eating date, I would definitely enjoy. Come eat me x

So back to bookings and my personal preferences. I have enjoyed all types of bookings, long, short and overnights and all have been different and unique with the client. Good communication is important prior to and during the booking so both the escort and client receive the most out of their time together x

Double Life?

Double lives, something I find really fascinating, exciting and creative. Its akin to having a secret. We all have parts of ourselves we don't share or reveal. Its an invisible presence in everyone's life. If we gave those parts a voice, what would it say about us?
I also believe we all have traits, habits, interests that would be considered different to another or strange. An illusion versus reality? Who else feels living a double life is part of their existance? Does it compliment and live alongside? It does have firm roots in our society, so is it natural?

Public figures, friends and family can surprise us when we learn about misbehaviour or strange habits, in other ways we're not surprised at all. We see so much sensationalised scandals in newspapers and T.V. we become normalised. We are also shown political correctness and those in power telling us what is the norm and laws state how we should be living our lives, there are grey areas in all of this.
The balance then of the power between the secret and the secretkeeper is always in a flux of negotiation. We can't live with them or without them.

I recently spoke with an Escort contemplating retirement due to how she described her double life. The boundary was very cloudy for her. She felt she could not cope with living a lie and the two worlds were colliding. There was an internal struggle to be more authentic. There was ultimately an issue around self acceptance as we discovered some of the facets in her life i.e. being a mother wasn't all she was, her business wasn't all she was or an escort etc etc. Integrating this and understanding all these parts and their roles shape who she is.

Anyway off I go on a tangent. I find in my contemplation living a "double life" is a journey in itself, brings creativity and learning's. Long may I have the courage to explore my life and what's hidden and dancing around on the surface. Life can be extraordinary, a map with no compass x